If you want to escape the 9-5 and have the freedom to travel the world or escape your country, join the waitlist for the Adventure Capitalist community (Get a MASSIVE discount at launch. Just $9): https://www.7fbusinessbuilder.com/adventurecapitalist I lived in Italy for over a year. Here’s the truth about dating in Italy – as a black man.
I’ll share with you the experience I had and my thoughts on racism in Italy.
What’s up gentlemen welcome back to the channel in this video as you can probably tell by the title we are doing another video in the the truth about dating Series this time we are going to cover Italy now before we get into it there are a few disclaimers first and
Foremost this is solely my experience your mileage may vary secondly my experience was mostly in the north of Italy in Milan I lived there for over a year I dated a girl who lived there for over a year as well but I did date in
The south of Italy as well and I also did a little bit of dating in Rome so I have dating experience throughout Italy but mostly in Milan which is located in the North now before we get into dating let’s talk a little bit about Italian women because some of you may be curious
About what they are like so for my money the women in the North and the South are much different and they also look much different however I don’t want to make that sort of generalization because I don’t think I have enough dating experience in the South compared to
Dating a woman from Milan for over a year so I know way more about the mannerisms there than I do in the South but from the other dates that I went on in the South and in Milan there are some differences that I personally notice but
This also be could be because Milan is a huge City More Money More Metropolitan than the South where it’s a little more country so with all that said you know the boy is going to be totally honest with you and here is how I feel about Italian women so Italian
Women are fairly attractive they have nice facial features I personally like their skin and I like their hair a lot as well now here is the issue for me they are a little too slim they are not voluptuous like I like so if you’re looking for those Latina curves or even there are
Women in Asia like South Koreans actually are kind of baddies but that’s for a completely different video but for me I really didn’t see any 10 out of 10 baddies walking around in any part of Italy although I do think the women in the South tend to be more attractive in
My humble opinion but as I mentioned earlier your mileage may vary it completely depends on the body type you like so if you like slim women with not a lot of Curves then you’ll probably love Italian women because they are objectively beautiful they just don’t don’t have my preferred body type for
The most part obviously you can find some gyms every now and then now with all that said let’s get into what they are like in a nonphysical sense so first and foremost they try very hard to look sexy and feel sexy the fashion is on point which if you’re from a place like
The United States you’ll see you’ll see massively obese women dress like they are Tom boys or you’ll just see girls running around in not the most attractive clothing which is perfectly okay but it shows you how much importance Italian women place on looking and feeling sexy for my money
They just feel much more feminine and this includes their undergarments I’ll tell you a little story on that here in a minute also they’re always in the gym because they do want to look sexy and and personally I think this is because when you’re walking around you see a lot
Of objectively beautiful women and they know that these women are their competition for the men that they want and that is also maybe part of the reason that they are so slim because they are hidden the gym hard hard now the personality I dated a lot of
Different types of women so some were kind of quiet and shy but most of them are actually very very charismatic very humorous outgoing fun romantic feminine and just in general what I would consider wife quality women however the big drawback is if they feel slided in any sort of way
They become absolute demons and this leads me to the next thing they have very high expectations for the men that they date and that isn’t necessarily a bad thing because they will pour everything they have into you and they expect that same treatment in return so one they don’t suffer fools
And two if you are trying to be all nonchalant it ain’t going to work for you because they also have the idea that women should be chased not not the Chasers and we’re not getting into like tests and all that kind of dating stuff but they are definitely going to
Test your patience and test your limits to make sure that you are all in just as they are all in now a quick story for you so the the woman that I dated in Milan for over a year she was a student at the University there she is really
Big into fashion and all that good stuff and she was really sweet Charming funny all the stuff I mentioned before and so before class she would come over just to make me food because I was working from home at the time and she knew most of the time I was hardly even eating
Especially back then I was way more absorbed into my work so I was putting in long hours and I wasn’t taking breaks which is something that’s not healthy to do but that’s not what this video is about so she had come over cook clean leave she’ go to school and sometimes after
School she’d come over and we would go out or what may have you like I said she is super sweet super nice then she would go hit the gym and she would send me like all these suggest pictures and texts from the gym showing me her body show showing off her
Improvements and she was absolutely obsessed with growing her ass so she was giving me like daily updates on her ass and then pretty much every week she is going shopping for new lingerie just to show me because she wanted to look and feel sexy and she’ make sure oh how do
You like my hair how do you like my nails how do you like my toenails what do you want me to wear and from the other women that I dated for any serious amount of time they did similar things they were always asking my opinion on how they looked what what
My preferences were and in general they just didn’t have this I’m a strong independent woman type attitude now let let’s get into the probably more controversial part of this video is Italy racist in my experience I did not have any racist encounters as I said previously your mileage may vary I’ll
Also say sometimes you see what you want to see and I don’t look for racist things so if someone was rude to me I didn’t just assume they were being racist and even then I don’t recall anyone ever being like outrightly rude to me and I know the north has more of a
Reputation for being racist but I never experienced that personally now what I will say is that the woman that I dated in Milan she did tell me that she does know racist people or she knows of racist people in Milan now maybe that’s one person maybe it’s a million people I
Don’t know I highly doubtful it’s a million people but I never personally experienced it and so that’s what I have to say on that topic I never experienced any racism at all as far as I know in Italy at least no outright racism we would go to all these nice places we
Never got rejected entry or anything like that and in general I found the people to be really friendly and obviously I was with an Italian woman so she spoke Italian so if someone was talking about us she would know and she never said anything however I am sure we probably got some
Interesting looks but once again I don’t pay attention to that stuff I don’t walk around being like Oh what do these people think I’m going to look at everyone to see how they’re looking at us and obviously we were in Milan which is a big city so maybe if we went to
Some of the like really small towns then maybe it would have been a little bit different but we did go to some other like smaller towns especially on the way to like Venice for example and we never had any bad experiences but like I said previously your mileage may vary this is
Solely my experience and now to wrap up this video dating was fairly easy in Italy just like my previous video about Thailand it’s pretty much the exact same thing my Tinder was popping when I was talking to women on the streets they were friendly they were approachable sometimes there were
Communication issues because I don’t speak Italian but the ones who spoke English certainly gave me the time of day and even the ones that weren’t necessarily interested they were really nice about it and so overall dating in Italy was great for me it was probably one of the
Best places to date in my personal experience okay so that wraps up this video I hope you enjoyed watching thank you for watching if you have any questions let me know if you have any experience go ahead and share that with the community down below because like I said this is just one
Person’s experience maybe you have had a different experience all right so I’ll talk to you guys later and as always peace much love

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Thanks for watching. I appreciate it.
Thanks for speaking truth. I hope to see more of your content soon.
Europe as a whole is the best place to date as a black man (from experience & from the UK)
Grazie bello
Why tf is racism always the first question?? Not every girl in the world likes me, doesn't mean they're racist…
You wouldn't ask that question, if you lived here in Italy as I have for the past 15 years! You'd know, as I do. But what does it matter, some groups will always dislike other groups, even if they're the similar in color! I've seen that too, amongst immigrant groups here as well. Stop looking at who likes you or not – value yourself!
Ahhh fooled by a bikini
I prefer thin women and I am Italian. Interesting you found No raceism. Most Italians do not see color because Italians are multicolored.
I lived in Italy for a few years, in both the south and Milan. Italy is difficult for dating as a man due to language barrier and competition from attractive local men. I also found Milan to be quite snobby overall.
I dated a southern Italian girl for a few months but she had lived in the UK and was open minded and English speaking.
Being fluent in Italian can improve dating options exponentially.
Oh for fuks sake. We are so tired of this same old diatribe. If an Italian girls only wants to date Italian men, that's not racists. That's keeping their heritage, ancestry and culture alive. Not like the disgrace the US has become.
cringe bro
Some Black men dont find BW attractive, is that racism. ? We all have a right to have our own tastes in what we find attractive. I am sick of this racist grift. I am not attracted to men sexually, does that make me homophobic. ?
I don't know about Italy, i only passed through there. But in Spain, i was not treated well as a person of color.