IVF in Italy: Our Fears, Our Clinic, Our Future Plans

We asked you guys on IG to send us your IVF questions, so we put together this little Q&A sharing: which IVF clinic we are using in Italy, what our biggest fears are with IVF, do we have baby names chosen, if all goes well, will we deliver the baby in Italy or the US, etc.

00:00- Would we deliver a baby in Italy?
02:00- Are we moving to Italy?
05:32- Where do you live now?
05:48- Jessi’s family
06:29- Baby names
07:46- How old are we?
08:56- Travel plans this year
11:27- What would we bring from Italy?
12:32- Changing diet for IVF
15:53- Biggest IVF fears
18:11- Clinic name
25:45- Why we cover the microwave
27:38- Differences IVF Italy vs US
34:13- Where will we raise our children?

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Chi So today we’re going to answer your questions so what is the question number one Moran must ask our big question that people were asking is are we going to have the baby if everything goes well in Italy or are we going to stay closer to our current home

Well so technically it’s much easy to have it here in United States yes why well because we have all these appointments that we have to do throughout the pregnancy and it would be like we would have to move to Italy we need to move for the duration of the

Pregnancy and having the baby yes for the appointments and for if the baby were to come early so I just don’t think that makes sense yeah it’s not practical to take the airplane to go back and visit plus with MAA how life right now it is in United

States so we decide to go IVF there because was cheaper and then actually was more nice uh environment and then we was thinking yeah okay that was a great thing but for the baby for delivery I think it here it is the great spot to do

It because it’s going to be easy to go to the appointments and then more even though I am curious about how it would all that was interesting like to see what is the difference actually you make me sense like I don’t know for the second one yeah we’ll see maybe maybe

One is going to be American and one is going to be Italian so they’re going to fight say I’m Italian I’m American I’m Italian too I’m American too havep citizenship though yeah but where you burn it’s going to be American it’s going to be American he going to eat

Macaroni and cheese he’s not going to eat they’re all going to eat macaroni and cheese they’re craft is coming they’re goingon to go folis they’re going to eat macaroni and cheese and I think he’s going to be proud to say I’m Italian but he going to eat macaroni and cheese that

Is going to be the perfect combination yes perfect on the same subject people want to know if we want if we’re still moving to Italy all right this is a big question it’s not an easy answer it’s not an easy answer actually so we go back and forth so many times right and

Yes every day every day we like once in the America and once in the Italy I wish can combine or to be so close like for uh airplane one is really long trouble plus Jesse you know have um trouble to I’m getting better though she getting better with travel anxiety he’s talking

About airplane fear yeah but you’re going better but I’m getting better but I think ultimately we just had to kind of put a list of what makes the most sense for where we are right now in this stage of life that we’re in and I think

Right now it just makes the most sense to stay in the US that doesn’t mean that we’ve totally stopped looking at houses in the US or sorry in Italy we’re still looking around you never know when that perfect place might pop up and we haven’t totally said that we won’t move

There in the future but I think right now especially with IVF with the timing because we were ready to move to Italy yeah like we ready but then with the timing of IVF with my enemy trioses with surger we had to go go go we’ve got to

Have the baby we have to try now the timeline just kind of got all all shifted shifted and now we have to try and make our family and it makes more sense to it make more sense to the United States because uh yes moving in Italy then we have MAA and then

Everything else and it was a step after step after step so it was much better we’re doing the avf in Italy come back raise the family here and then maybe looking but I like America it’s not okay I hate America just joking I know you like America but

They might not know you like it I mean he just doesn’t like Americanized Italian food that’s it I just hate the Italians Americanized food that’s it but I cooking all the time home I I go around eating in the restaurants we don’t go I always cook me the meal

Saturday Sunday we do special stuff like that I enjoy that so I mean I miss Italy for that and now I think about it I want to go there’s so much nice like things lifestyle wise that are nice in Italy but I think our goal since we aren’t

Moving is to try and bring more of that lifestyle for us like you said always cooking at home trying to find moments for just just try to adopt that mentality more here and we go back to how I don’t know we did a video a long time ago how

Go from the beginning always to do six months in Italy and 6 months in America so it’s like like a house here a house there and go back and forth that was a little house here our goal so who knows if that going to come in the future but

Right now that’s what happens in life the plans always end up changing so it’s better to just go with the flow oh maybe when we retired yeah like when we are in the 50s or 60s we say okay let’s change right now though we’re here we’re here

Which actually they asked where we are because not everybody seems to know that we live in Tennessee yeah we’re in the South and uh and we love it yeah that’s where I was from born and actually on the same thing they had another question because they said we got to see alesia’s

Family are we going to get to see your family family um maybe maybe I mean it’s not a problem to to film it this um they would be good to do it you need find the scenario you know like um what give you I don’t know we’ll we’ll we’ll try we’ll figure

That out try we try we try we’ll figure that out I think like maybe like a family dinner or something Easter’s coming up oh yeah we’re going to be here for Easter so maybe we could show my family for Easter yeah okay we could do

That we work on that we’ll work on that next question yeah do we have names picked out for our future little ones no no I was going to say yes I have names in my mind we’re never going to tell you guys ever you’re never going to

Know until until the G burn because when you say it then you don’t like anymore no we’re not going to tell them the name but we have names that we’ve talked about yeah well for the boy we don’t have it it’s really hard to find boy

Names that we both like we have million girl names million girls names but for the boy we have zero so so hard so we’re going to decide like I said in the last video or one video alesio Jr it would be so cute it would be so cute he hates it

I hate alio J you want to be the one and only not just for that alesio junor might you don’t call it alesio junor you call alesio I don’t want to ruin his life I love your name yes but Alesia Alesia if it was a girl Alesia maybe or Jessie Jess O next

Question how old are we wow so I am on my way to be 34 soon alesio is how old are you H 37 no are you I was like I’m 37 he’s 37 um I think we look pretty good for our age right I have some gray hairs I got

Some gray hairs they came they started coming in as soon as I met alesio and then like they’re there but you know what I think I say embrace it I really don’t care about aging I’m actually happy to get older cuz I think it is a blessing

My goal is to grow old with you I hope one day I can say oh I’m 84 years old and then everybody knows that the man is uh like a a wine please more you gold and more you all right alesio senior I really yeah I’m happy to grow

Old with you yeah what are our travel plans for 2024 do we have any trips planned well we have one trip planned and we’re going to be New Orleans we’re going to go taste all the New Orleans Food I’m so glad to go back to New Orleans some people ask where we met

They might be new to the channel met at New Orleans it’s going to be our first time back after moving to Nashville yeah but you know what is crazy I’ve been there and I pretty much don’t try nothing I try crawfish yes I try because they cook in

The yeah cish boil and I tried the uh gambo that was my favorite then but I never atat aligator there’s so many things that he’s never tried I’ve tried almost everything the cafe sorry the be yeah we do that I put together a huge list of everything we’re going to eat when we’re

There I’ve had all of this but there’s so many things that Alesia hasn’t had so I’m like I’m so excited so we’re going to go back we’re going to like see a visit where we grew up not grew up where our love grew up and then eat basic eat

Yeah just go redoing har little then because this year actually is going to be 10 years together actually anniversary plus I’m 10 years coming United States it’s a big celebration so actually actually I go the almost in the same time it’s crazy we don’t plan this came just for reason

But then I think about oh it’s 10 years actually I came United States and um so that’s our big our trip plan yeah obviously the IVF the IVF get this uh this uh spring too and then from there we need to see how the IVF going because

If we start go up and down up and down from Italy because if everything go wrong it is hard I was try to put Texas in this year and I try to put New York City this year so My Idea it this New Orleans Texas Italy Texas New York but wa don’t

Up we don’t know I I believe there going to be New Orleans and definitely New Orleans that we’re going to see after I yeah yeah if there was one thing you can bring back here from Italy what would it be I already know mine go ahead your family

Oh if I could scoop them all up and bring them here I would be really happy yeah I would say it but I don’t think everybody want to come here well they don’t have a choice cuz I’m scooping that here my mom different yeah when I come here we need

To get her visiting over she said that when I born like she want to come back here uh oh a good Pizza the Roman Coliseum I always bring nothing oh you’re going to leave Italy where it is yeah okay okay I always bring nothing yep nothing nothing not even like one

Little small thing to have your Comforts here is there a comfort in Italy that you would want to bring here I always bring nothing I always leave it like that that is the nice thing you can okay have okay yeah have we changed our diet for the IVF process have we been cutting

Sugar or doing anything special actually we did yes for a time yes we did our diet we we even went gluten-free for two months two months because we were trying to cut inflammation from my body it didn’t really do much but the doctor said if we could go four to eight

Weeks gluten-free then maybe it would help we did and yeah I mean it was actually a lot easier than I thought it was going to be I could easily do it again super easy like I was thinking oh my God but we was eating pasta we was eating everything like gluten-free then

Vegetables was pretty amazing like uh uh changes the the body you know it’s hard to know uh because I was feeling always energetic yeah and I think too like when you do big changes like that you really have to do it for a long term I at least in my

Opinion I know there’s different I know but like I think 6 months then you might know like a a feel a difference but the doctor said four weeks eight weeks so that’s what we did and yeah we did that I mean we always try to cut sugar alesio

Poor alesio with all of his eating videos lately he’s had to eat the sugar a lot of sugar but we cut a lot of sugar because when we baking when we see the recipe I always cut the sugar we just cut the sugar like uh especially if it

Has fruit in it yeah like I’ll make apple pies or cobblers things that have fruit in it I cut out the sugar in the recipe totally because I feel like it’s already sweet enough yeah with the fruit I then maybe in the beginning you oh but

Then you go so used to then you don’t feel anymore to have sugar so and without sugar I in my opinion it’s much much better desserts the desserts everything then uh I don’t know we try to keep a pretty Mediterranean diet overall like we’re always eating like

Lately too we’ve been eating a ton of vegetables a lot of fiber um we’re trying to be really anti-inflammatory with the foods that we’re eating but then too like we will eat dessert and things like that like we did the same I mean I’m all about the

Balance yeah we eat some desserts and homemade with without sugar I like we we’re always cooking at home guys we very rarely go out to restaurants very rarely not even for like special occasions it’s more special for us to cook a really nice dinner that

We like here at the house yeah so it’s really rare so I mean not really any like super big changes just things that we try to do all the time and then we are like I am taking um the prenatal vitamins some other little supplements here and there just in preparation but

Really the egg retrieval was where most of our preparation came from the EG Che yeah cuz that we were really trying to make sure my eggs were the best quality that they could be yeah that we did a lot of diet we did a lot of things um

What is our biggest fear associated with the IVF that’s it’s rough it’s rough you know I’ll be honest my biggest fear is not the failure of the iidea it is keeping our relationship strong during it and I know we have a strong relationship I just

Don’t ever want us to get to the point where we’re so mentally and emotionally exhausted by it all that it causes problems between us so that’s why I always consciously work on it now and that’s why we have a really strong relationship but I think like having

Something happen between us would be my biggest concern yeah my biggest fear instead guys this question make you NE think about it like uh it’s a thought it’s a thought question so my biggest fear I guess is not the feeling because I prepare to redo it maybe the fear can

Come if we losing the fith because if this go wrong and then we need to go back to redo it in the short time and then weo back to shoot do this scale time I worry get all this up and down up and down with this make us little bit

Say okay let’s wait and take time because you get burned out burn out because and more you wait and more this endometriosis come back fast so the fear is to be born out from the to go so I try to prepare mentally example when I talk you with you guys I

Always said in the videos I’m prepared if this going to fail to redo it because if I prepare mentally then you will constantly okay I go like you’re ready you don’t have to feel like you pick yourself back up you already know what you’re going to do next that is with I

Was working on it right now prevent then obviously I won’t go straight the first of course but try to to do that for not have that burn out yeah would you be comfortable sharing the name of your IVF Clinic yes so the clinic it is Instituto

Bernabel and then now from your name it is bernabel yes Heart Clinic it is in Italy but it’s not Italian sh yeah so what do you mean what do you mean so istituto bernabel actually when we was looking um the option to Italy okay no option to IVF in Europe okay how

The best are Spain Republica ccha can you say Czech Republic Czech Republic and Greece they STP three no was Italy in there Italy yeah because in Italy uh uh the IVF start later because before we have uh problems with the church like the church uh the Vatican no want to do

Make do that and then they came at deal so Italy start to do IVF so Italy the best clinics Italian clinics you can find in Milan where our money okay and we looking for that too it was Milan actually was another in um tuskan okay other part they are not that advanced

Like Spain all right all Italians usually go in Spain uh but even some people ask oh why didn’t you go in Spain a lot of people ask us why you don’t go in Spain right Italians oh you go in Spain no in Italy in Italy yeah because we are 10 years

Behind not behind but I just say it’s not all country make it it is for free there but we said Jesse was supposed to be citizen there for 6 month before do that and we don’t have this time so what happened when Jesse was searching she searched she found a they open a

Spanish uh instit clinic in Italy it was in Venice an hour from where I from so I said oh my God this is good this is good so the the people working there are Italians but this people was working in Spain okay uh the doctors was working in

Spain plus there are even Italians working in Italy because yes they have like you can say wow you just Italian The Experience they know have daa daa is more important like uh when they have a paion they all that the technique they have it but Spain have more more there

Because everybody was go there but the Italians was working all over the place the Italy they work there so we have good doctors so about that that team was in Italy when we talk with them actually they was all come from the the Spanish The Institute bernabel was one

The most specialized in endometriosis in Spain so more than lucky that this it was perfect perfect so like was Destiny can we find that after years we was looking and we was thinking about about a republic Czech because for the cost but then you need to stay there almost

Went to the Czech Republic we need to stay too because the price from Spain Spain price is the most high price like 10,000 okay something like that or 15 star yeah starting starting 10,000 oh okay I was thinking most 10,000 I don’t think so okay maybe I’m wrong I don’t

Know well I was thinking was 10,000 a Italy was 10,000 too pretty much so between the two I was thinking well in Spain you need a calc you stay two weeks so it’s much better to stay in Italy but then when Italy came with the istitute of bernabel game changed we immediately saw

It I showed it lale we both just instantly were like oh we’ve got to schedule a consultation and the consultation was amazing so good and the process was amazing so istituto bernabel maybe we’re going to write here yeah okay so you’re going to Venice so you’re

Going to uh if you want to have consultation you can go if you are from Italy or you American want to go in Europe because I know a lot of Americans go all over the place because some places here cost you a lot even 100 Cas people spend so people prefer maybe

Spend 20,000 or 10,000 plus to be in vacation like if I go I go in Italy and I have a vacation right in the my circumstance senses I close to my home I need to drive 1 hour back and forth no big deal yeah up and down stay with your

Family yeah so easy easy and then I we go in Italy anyway to see my family so was perfect so not everybody have that luxury for because put a this big trip with like this but yeah and then if if you see our videos the IVF we’re going

To give you all to buy the medicine where to uh go eat where is in all that videos we put some clips I think egg retrieval it was the pharmacy the clinic was right there with the medicine so you have all good packet there my recommendation is high to go there like

I love that like I love them maybe that’s what I would do the question that we answered there’s something we could scoop up from it and bring here the CL Clinic the clinic yes this is perfect I going to bring the clinic because uh and we told them this is amazing experience

And they say thank you so much they was appreciated for her feedback because probably no a lot of people don’t give feedback it’s not like here so passionate too they spend so much time like crafting their team because it’s not just the IVF doctor you’ve got the embryologist all the nurses The Midwives

The whole team they worked so hard and like really passionate to find the best people working there so they’re really impressive I love that we recommend them I recommend them day 100 times because I no you’re not going to fell down with the team could they have and the Tesa

And all the other team it is amazing I always think about them and just go oh they’re so great yeah that was a little bit for us disappointed for the baby when we was talking about where born the baby I would like to see because they told us in the in the riew

Oh I can uh can’t wait to follow us to the oh they’re going to follow us too when because I was thinking okay you got the baby pregnant a finish hard work finished but they told us oh I can’t wait to do the first uh ultrasound ultrasound we don’t ask question we were

So yeah we was shocked we know ask oh because we have to it is something in the program uh so we don’t ask nothing but we were in shock until like um we don’t know maybe we’ll go back for a couple other appointments maybe one who

Knows who know we’ll see we’ll see we love them so much we wish we could scoop them here yeah so many people asking about the microwave towel why the microwave why why the microwave towel go ahead answer the towel question a lot of people know the answer to that

Question question but okay why the time because we hate the microwave unless anti microwave it’s all about the reflection about Jesse when she filmed me to uh to hard food trials it’s so distracting if you’re trying to watch alesio and you see me like popping back and forth they pH

Laughing I filmed it once like that and I was editing it and I thought this is terrible We cannot put me back there so now we always cover and I hate the macrowave alio was happy to just not see it if we could take it down and replace

It with a like a oven Hood we would but we just don’t want to spend the money to do that so no no we don’t know if one day we’re going to sell this house cuz if we sell this house we cut two hands for America because America want the

Microwave want the microwave but if I say say okay this is my house I going to take the microwave and throw away actually no I don’t throw away I put in different direction where he know need to be by side close not my close to the

My it’s good because have the light the only function is the light I actually want to try and build one of those like little wooden covers to go in front of the microwave so it Blends in with the cabinets and it doesn’t reflect me in the background so that’s is the reason why

Cover that’s the big secret about the towel big secret gu so reflective so are there any other differences that we’ve come across with Italy and the us as far as infertility pregnancy IVF all these things well one was the age right like the difference like now we was talking about the

Doesa oh like the age of the mother the mother yeah what she told you because that was interesting you was in shock Okay so so let’s go back a little bit here so when we first started trying to conceive I was 29 and it was right like

When I was prepared I had this whole plan I’m going to have my first baby at 29 I’m going to wait three years and have my next one I had it all planned out like many of us do and then when that wasn’t happening I started to get

Like the biological clock was ticking I was thinking oh gosh I’m getting older I’m getting older and all of my friends started to have babies and then some of them had two babies so I started to think oh my God go I’m like running out of time here I’m running late and then

Uh we were 3 or I was 31 we went to the doctor in Italy for the first time just a regular gynecologist there for infertility and I was prepared to say look I know we’ve got to move move move because that’s what everybody here in

The US had been telling me and he looked at my file and he was like well you know like you’re only 31 you’re so young you have so much time I really don’t and he just kept talking like like so casually about it yeah yeah like we were

Both so shocked W you were I was super shocked I know was that shocked because I come shocked here when a lot of people especially in the South uh United States people married super young and they have children super young when in Italy at least North Italy people going to

Probably not even married but have kids cultures kids at 35 you’re waiting 35 if if you say somebody at 26 when you plan to have children they laugh you in there your face in Italy like about why you talking about so young I am a child yeah I mean I am a

Child I cannot have babies at this point because they’re looking from 35 I know United States here maybe New York I want to say clarify you can have babies whenever you want but there is definitely a cultural difference in the mentality of in the US if you don’t have

A baby before you’re in your 30s you’re behind and in Italy if you have one before your 30s yeah they’re totally surprised I honest I was ready at 35 right now 37 so two years ago you would have been 33 when we started yeah I was

33 yeah yeah I’m started 33 where I am now yeah but in that moment was uh from the endometriosi came up like all the circumstances like oh we need to do it or you never going to do it m because they told us you’re never going to do it

So and then uh for a lot of reasons we know did the IVF that time but everything come perfectly because if we did IVF in that time who knows what was happening and then we wait that time we researched and then came that clinic right there all you always put Fai in

The destiny and then something come the destiny in the you put Fai in God or whatever yes yeah yeah and then it always works out the way it I I always think that it always works out the way it’s meant to be yeah um I do

Want to say one other thing about the age thing because I know when I was in the thick of the infertility struggles like feeling the pressure of having a baby in my early 30s at that point I was like oh my gosh I’m running out of time

And here they say when you’re 35 or over you’re like ancient your geriatric pregnancy there was so much pressure Associated so when we went to Italy and when we were even talking to your friends after that doctor’s appointment you had a friend who had just had our

First baby at 34 one at 36 sometimes 40 and everybody was so casual about it it was so refreshing it took so much pressure off of me that I suddenly realized oh my gosh I’m not like on a timeline I’m not late I’m not running behind I’m totally okay

And I just took so much anxiety away from me so I’ve started to share that with other people who might also be feeling the pressures yeah and so just know that there are other cultures that have a totally different mindset about it and obviously do what’s best for you

But if you’re feeling that anxiety of oh my gosh everybody I know had babies at this age and I’m I can’t I’m having infertility what’s wrong with me I’m going to have all these problems just relax it’s going to be okay take your time and then don’t worry

There’s nothing wrong nothing you have time it’s going to be okay and that really helped me just relieve some of that anxiety yeah that doctor phrase they remove you and they I remember you told me it just tell me I’m too young to have babies and I was thinking yeah yeah

Well it’s 31 I know our situation like from the fertility we feel okay we are late in the game because for all doctors in us they told us yes because in Europe they can make you printed even at 37 here too here too yes yes too but they

Looking they said until 35 is a good age and then you start go down it’s like this drop off yes her situation was like Jesse have already three s two surgeries and they was worried about more the surgeries then your age yeah yeah exactly and then when you when you did

The IVF they always say oh you’re so young so we was expecting a good reaction like this and and then even right now when we said oh guys even if you got this wrong you’re so young we’re going to make work because we’re going to then uh figure out what is going

Wrong and then the Chance is going to go higher and higher higher so they give you a lot of confidence like just it made me feel so much more confident like you said less like a failure less like I was doing something wrong and just took so much pressure off I really appreciated

That different mindset it’s just refreshing to see a different thought process on it when you do have a baby are you planning to raise them in the US the American way or in Italy the Italian way I will say no matter where we raise them we want them to have a combination

Of both of our cultures and our languages hopefully they will be multilingual I think we need to talk to them really English I going to close my mouth are you going to speak with them in English because if I I speak with them they’re going to I’m going to ruin

Their life with bad English bad grammar you mean bad grammar well I can’t speak to them in Italian then cuz my grammar in Italian is ter to do my gestur so you only answer them in Italian I’ll only answer them in English uh yes I that is

My biggest fear because raise it my mom was American okay and she talk to me in Italian because when you are in that situation you speak the language where you from okay yes so she speak that language in Italian not because she want I learn English

Because you are there I notice okay when I’m here with Jesse I speak English and I sometimes I throw one Italian word here so just she can learn we speak in a weird combination weird combination like three languages mixed together but but majority English yes English so if a a

Kid was born in United States you in my opinion I was uh make him like an American oh they’re speaking Italian too they’re going to speak Italian I’m going to teach one problem okay they’re going to speak Italian too of course but I going to try to teach the thing but

Race kind of like American because they need to prepare to America if they leave tell we got to train them to be Americans I I see what you’re saying I really you don’t agree huh no it’s just that I think there’s so many good things about both cultures that I want to try

And Infuse them with the best of both the cooking is going to be Italian I was I was thinking like uh like what would you like what is an example of this to to be we are in the South here a lot of people’s polite and unlike the in

Italians they are not polite like here oh people are going to disagree with you on that because Italy is known for being so polite and generous listen don’t talk to Italian I say the Italians are polite because all the Italian immigration Italians like me when I go out and they

I go back in Italy as at least in the South the United States when I go back now I see this Italian they and they they make me go crazy and my blood go back ital where we are that’s true here in the south in Tennessee you walk down the

Street and everyone’s like Hi how are you the the people the people when they say oh the Americans not polite wait the Americans are polite the Italians are polite yes when it’s guest if you bang there like a guest you cannot beat Italians okay because the guest it is the guest okay

But if you have a normal person Italian living in Italy you need to fight with everybody every day for half everything if I go to the post office I need to fight for my papers if I need to go the car rental I need to fight the car

Rental and I remember when we were in the interstate you know and I pay the ticket not to the guy and I say good morning how are you you today the guy told me guys you need to reproduce yourselves because I the first guy said good morning to

Told me good morning today h you need to make a lot of babies I want everybody like you because you are the first one and you know what I notice me too so I believe K America have a lot of principles then it is a lot of craziness

But I believe there’s a lot of good principles in America then see that’s why we need to take the good from both yes like in Italian an appreciation for food history um you know finding time to enjoy the little things slowing down but also having a good work ethic it has to

Be a combination yeah we’re going to create this nice combination of yes yes yes yes but I think when uh a kid it burn polite you make everything else because a kid polite one to one learn history uh going to be yes it going to be nice thing but you’re Italian you’re

Born in Italy and you’re polite I’m not polite because I tell everybody how no good is the food here with no polite manners true I tell this is okay like terrible let’s say terrible this is terrible meanwhile I’m over here like like most people say oh this is

Good no I honest this is not good okay so the Italian way is coming out for not to be polite this is ter so how are we raising these kids because I feel confused now don’t worry with my cookie is going to be all SI is good okay I

Tell you polite is the answer forgot the whole point of the question where we’re going to raise them America America yeah okay that was the okay that was the in America with a combination of cultural and lingal then if they want to do my back like because it’s weird my life

Because my grandparents come here and my mom born here and they go back to us no to back to Italy married Italian stay there the Sun come in US Mar American stay here make a baby the baby go in Italy married Italians stay there I going to accept it we’re going to it’s

Going to Generation by generation it’s going to hop back and forth yeah between the two oh my go I’m going to I’m going to accept that well that means our grandkids will be back here in the US so we can Vis that we go retire in Italy

Then it’ll mess it up again yes oh okay well guys thank you so much for uh stay with us drop some question if you like we try to bring the doctor for more question IVF actually IVF and metriosis related questions so until to the next