Here we are in a new year. Like many people, I love empowering myself with a more disciplined exercise and eating plan in the month of January. Come with me for seven days as I go for walks around our house in Tuscany, Italy, and try to convince my husband to join me in this fitness challenge.
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Hello again how is the first week of this fresh new year for you how peculiar that a calendar just an arbitrary collection of numbers gives us the permission to start again to hope for better the permission to forgive ourselves for the sides of our character that we dislike or that we’ve been
Trying to Bridle to Mark a line in the earth and articulate what we desire to clasp the wheel a little more firmly and Proclaim I’d like to turn the ship more in this Direction please I have many desires for this year some are very personal others are the
Obvious ones I worked on this video last week but then I hesitated sometimes it’s difficult for me to decide what to share with you and what to leave out I feel so close to so many of you particularly those who write to me who support my
Work on patreon who have followed me for many many years I suppose I will just try as I always do to be myself but to tread delicately with discernment it’s such a strange thing to document one’s thoughts in a public space but then I suppose books have always been a similar
Concept a very private intimate thoughtful process that usually occurs in a room alone whether it be a writer 100 years ago scribbling a manuscript or me filming this video the end goal is to share thoughts to connect to faceless friends who may glance at the work absent-mindedly or scornfully or indeed
Inhale every word with the focus with which it was created I guess sometimes when I feel tired of this world of incessant oversharing my inclination can be to withdraw like a snail and keep my thoughts safely in my little shell but then I remember that sharing isn’t all
Bad it makes us feel less alone it creates art perhaps it’s only negative when it’s mindless when it’s created without thought or on the part of the viewer when one consumes social media without choosing who you watch it can feel like everyone is oversharing when in fact all
That is needed is to balance one’s own day better and just watch or read or listen to a few select people rather than than a tidal wave of random voices this footage was of a walk I took this week with John Franco the fields are a vivid green now the air is crisp
And clean as though cognizant of all the good intentions floating around the heads of humans everywhere this time of year I thought perhaps an intention you might share with me is a renewed commitment to health it can seem trite but I love realigning my diet Di and
Exercise and sleep and mental health uh in January and uh giving it the focus that I may not be capable of later in the Year Take back P I know yought ways come we have some come we have fun and this was never going to be the same make it more make it make it make it so come we have fun I want to be by you all night long I to be I to be by you night long I give you every reason today you can enough I love when you squeeze no B take it slow you can take it low oh n n
N body on fck oh my my my oh right n n n I want to be by you I I to be I want to be by You I want to be by you be by You as you know I cook fairly wholesome meals using so much from our garden I’ve walked almost every day of my pregnancy in my postpartum year but the severe sleep deprivation has meant I couldn’t actually work out as much as I used to and as you know I have such a love of
Baking and cooking elaborate desserts so I always like to give myself a month or two at the start of the year without sugar and almost no processed food this is a week of me working out I find watching others commit to their exercise and eating goals quite motivating so
Maybe it will be a little reminder to any of you who are trying to do something similar this January oh my gosh this is an example of the reality you start the year with great intentions and you get everything set up and then you wake up and I’ve got a sore throat I’m exhausted because John Franco woke up multiple times last night and I
Just I just lie awake when he’s if he’s waking up you know every hour or hour and a half I don’t get back to sleep in between uh and that is difficult because then it’s the consistency that keeps you motivated because you look and see that
You’ve done number of workouts in a row and uh and and consecutive days and then and you feel really proud and you feel really like uh you can keep keep going and and really really make some progress and now I’m just but it’s important now to just keep
Eating healthy and rest and just think okay maybe I can do a workout this afternoon or a walk or something I don’t know uh we saw in the news the other night I think it said half of Italy is in bed with the flu or some kind of
Virus or covid or something so I just can’t seem to recuperate when I’m not getting enough sleep nowhere near enough sleep and it’s I suppose my immunity is down because it’s just been 14 months of of not sleeping so difficult we’ve we were on such a great we’re in in such a great
Chapter where my breastfeeding was just putting him to sleep and and it was really finally working that I could just put him down without an hour of of crying and screaming and soothing and and uh and then when we had when we weaned which we had to do um it uh it
Just messed up everything and now we’re back to an hour of of screaming every bedtime and he has two naps a day so that’s three hours of of uh but although it is it is easier when I walk him when I walk him I just put him in the pram
And he gent and then I sing to him and he gently falls asleep so that’s easier did I tell you I’m cutting at Sugar yes it’s what I generally do the first two months or something two or three months of the year and um it helps me just not
Have those sugar Cravings get out of control because I have a very sweet tooth look at look at this day it’s so still and quiet nothing but the sound oh look John Franco look what’s that oh gosh look at that nothing but sound of John Franco singing I think I’ve said this before
But it always works when you don’t make it that there’s oh some days I’ll work out some days I won’t if you just say every morning I’ll get up and move and do some exercise and then you don’t have to think about whether you do it or not and work through your willpower
Yeah look at this day oh my gosh it’s so pretty yeah yeah yeah I’ve been trying to convince Guido to join me and finally halfway through the week he did although I refrained from filming him uh just didn’t want to scare him off uh we both felt like as
Soon as Christmas and New Year were over we weren’t quite ready to deal with work and all the list of admin responsibilities for our jobs when one feels stressed or pushed for time the last thing you want want to do is uh is start your workday later which is what
We have to do because with John Franco waking up through the night we can’t cut back on sleep and get up earlier but within only 2 days of working out for just 30 minutes a day we’s mental Clarity improved he was sleeping better and he seems more patient and kind
Take back what you want to play I know you like it naughty come over we have some come over we have have fun and this was never going to be the same make it more make it make it make it so come we have F I sit up I want to be I want to be by you all night Long you My H M delicious Perfect M so it is cold and rain rain in and gray skies and it’s easy to work out when there’s sunshine and you are reminded of of being outside and and uh and all the rest of it but um but I’ve managed to convince Guido to come and
Work out this morning to do some step aerobics and when I first met him he was doing step aerobics in a gym and he absolutely loved it and uh so yeah I got us some steps uh for Christmas and hopefully he’s arriving [Applause] Soon so many times I’ve fallen down and once or twice I’ve turned around cuz it’s not easy this life can knock you on the ground but when you’re with me I’m safe and sound Ooh you make me better ooh better than ever when you look into my eyes and make me feel like I’m Divine ooh you make me better I close my eyes and I see you there think it’s a sign that you’re always near cuz it’s not easy easy to do this life alone but
Now when you’re with me I’m safe and sound Ooh you make me better so this was my week we all have different bodies different demands so I hope you can find whatever brings balance to your life as for me I feel so excited about how strong my health will become now adding these workouts and
Taking away sugar for a couple of months which always makes me snack when I’m not even hungry I may continue all through January and February or I may have to recuperate if the sleepless nights continue we’ve just had three nights where he slept right through but today
He is teething so I don’t know about tonight like having a baby with exercise one has to think I can’t control what life throws at me but I can set out a plan for how I would like things to go and then just adapt and accept if it has
To change I hope this video gives you a little motivation thank you to my patreon supporters thank you for subscribing to this channel uh think about giving it a like if you’ve got up to this point in the video and I shall see you next episode Alima [Applause] You make me Better better than [Applause] ever I was just about to publish and then I remember that I’m going to do a Q&A next week so if you have any questions for me please leave them in the comments below this video I’ll I’ll ask also on my Instagram if you would like to uh leave
Me a comment there uh but I hope to answer as many as I can and I’m going to start filming that tomorrow morning so uh thank you very much for watching and I’ll see you next episode in the Q&A

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I love your videos! I enjoy your exercise routine. You warm my heart with each one. Savor these moments! ❤❤❤❤❤t
I can’t tell you how I much I needed to watch this video this week. Grazie 🙏 I too loved seeing Gianfranchino unload the dishwasher one by one ☝️ x
DEAREST KYLIE ❤️
Has positivity always been so deeply engrained in you? If so, where did it come from? If not, how did you develop and build it?
I was chatting with a dear friend in regards to your birth story way back when, and I love what she said:
“…And she was very balanced and fair about a horrible situation. It’s impressive! And, I think it’s real positivity. Which is a strength.
Too often people have pretend or superficial positivity… which is precarious because it’s based on self deception and that can crumble quickly.
It is healthy to be positive and honest. And when it is well balanced it is a beautiful thing. 😊”
Blessings to you and your family – all the way from -40c Canada!!!
Dear Kylie, I'm concerned about your lack of sleep due to your baby waking and crying through the night. Although I am no expert, surely you are aware that behaviors such as the baby crying though the night for no other reason but your beautiful nurturing way, can become habitual. I think I might cry for you as well! Have you tried allowing your child to learn to settle himself? It would take perhaps only a short time to learn to sleep through the night if you didn't run to his attention so quickly or easily.
I wish you and yours a Happy and healthy New Year, and thanks for sharing everything you do,
Mike
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😢 You are my motivation,you are my inspiration! I love your body sweet mum but most of all I do love your heart! The only question I have for the q&a: Would you like to be my friend? Love from 🇬🇷
I am giving up sugar (and wine) for January and February too- you're not alone! I already feel more energetic which is pretty amazing for such a short time.
Now I have to say that the highlight of the video for me was also Gianfranco handing his dad a plate, and then pointing up to the dish rack to tell him where to put it! 😂 Sweetpea!
Happy New Year 🎉
Dear Kylie, thank you for yet another lovely video. I'd love you to share which program or instructor are you following for your exercise routines. If possible. Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼.
You are living in a beautiful area of Italy, Tuscany. Walking down a long neverending road on a sunny morning with your Gianfranco is simply perfect. He is doing so well becoming independent slowly but surely. Love it. Carry on with this blissful life as it certainly gives me light relief from what is going on around me. Have a great New Year.
Kylie, looks like Gianfranco is going to be a Chef. Too cute.
Thanks for this Episode, your time and resources.
Take care and stay safe. Love you 3. 🖖🏼🤟🏼
If you are still taking questions, I was wondering if you could answer for me the best short itinerary I might create for a divorced 56 yo woman that would like to travel to Italy for the first time.? I would for my first trip to Italy, spend about 10 days. Thank you in advance. Regarding this latest video, I want to thank you! I am always so inspired and feel so at home when I watch your films. xx
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I also had a baby with sleeping issues. She’s 20 now and her favorite thing is to sleep late. 🙄🙄
Hang in there mama!
Kylie, each new video gives me inspiration to try something new either in the kitchen, making small changes to my home or tweak something to get the results I am looking for. I thank you for that and your beautiful videos. Keep up the good work with your exercises as well. Because there is a storm outside, I guess that in the morning, I too will pull out my yoga mat and step on the treadmill myself to get moving. Thank you
Dear Kylie and Family – Our daughter was much like Gianfranco as a baby & toddler – colicky and incredibly bright. The great news is she was a wonderful teenager and now a PhD student. She's still very sensitive to dairy, chemical fumes, etc. OK, I've probably overshared, but I want you to know that you are raising a very bright child!
Gianfranco Ramsey! Lol 😂
You are one of the few channels that I intentionally watch the whole adds because although I am not in the financial situation to be a patreon I wanna give back as much as I can ❤
Hi, Happy New Year,at least let's hope it will be.@ the moment,here in my experience,it is -40° C ( that is -52°C with the wind chill).It is exceptionally brutal in Western Canada this January.We had a warm , brown Christmas & now this.Keeping balance in this beginning is honestly a challenge.I don't always have the opportunity to view your offering but I sincerely enjoy all of them when I do.Your son is without doubt a force of nature.He doesn't lack confidence even in these tender months.Mothering is the most unpredictable experience of your life . Perhaps the sooner he understands that his behaviour is known to us out here in you tube land & we really want his very kindest reaction always because he can do that that will make everything so much easier.Blame it on me.That Christine acanadia said it truly needs to happen now that he is a very big & strong boy who can help his mother & father.(She needs to see that now.) So love to hear your elegant words when you wax poetically in the lovely calm tone of your voice.Peace & warmth be found in the coming months.Thankyou for this Post.❤
But your sharing on the social media is FULL of Substance. It’s like a form of meditation and calmness and beauty is what you bring to so many of us. Your Authenticity and love for your family and towards us to share them with us through your videos, the food recipes, it’s so therapeutic to me. I usual enjoy watching your videos on Sunday morning with my cup of coffee by my self before every gets up. It my time for me time. It puts me in such a calm joyful mood. In a world filled with useless,mindless, ego driven TikTok people.. you are just what the this world needs .
If you find the time to answear I would love to hear from you a bit about Florence. We are coming with my parents and a year old daughter for a week in the end of March and we are looking for tips about parks and places to eat, shop, spend time with little child. It’s gonna be my first time in Uffizi and La Accademia but with help of my beloved parents I think it will be doable 😅 … more now than with a 2 or 3 year old kid. As I could see in your movies Easter even with a bit of tuscan sun should be wonderfull. Thanks for your amazing work and sacrifises as a working mother. You constantly inspire me and help me to not cry about my constant deprived sleep 😢 Hugs from our family from Poland.
Your little one is so diligent, it is a joy !